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Connected
Through God-Joined Relationships
by Keith Moore
I sometimes say that my left foot has very little direct fellowship with
my right ear. In some positions, they may be a little closer together than
in other positions, but unless I become a contortionist and tie my body
into a knot, there's no way my left foot and my right ear can touch each
other directly.
However, my right hand has direct fellowship with my right ear all the
time. With my right hand I can wash my ear, scratch it, rub it - do
whatever I need to do to minister to it by directly touching it. Although
my hand and my ear have very different functions in my body, they have
been designed to have a direct relationship with one another. But my left
foot, though it's also an important part of my body, doesn't have a direct
relationship with my right ear.
I use this humorous illustration to remind us of something we tend to
forget - the Body of Christ is exactly like the human body. And as members
of that Body, we are all joined together in God-ordained relationships.
No Unnecessary Parts
The important word in that last sentence is God-ordained. The Bible says
the Lord has set every member in the Body as it has pleased Him. According
to Ephesians 4:15-16, we are to "grow up into him in all things,
which is the head, even Christ: From whom the whole body fitly joined
together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth according to
the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the
body unto the edifying of itself in love."
Another translation says, "we are to grow up in all aspects into Him,
who is the head, even Christ, from whom the whole body, being fitted and
held together by that which every joint supplies, according to the proper
working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the
building up of itself in love".
In other words, the Body of Christ - the Church - is just like the human
body. Even in its fallen condition the human body is a marvel. It is
"fearfully and wonderfully made" (Ps. 139:14). And the Body of
Christ is like the natural body. It, too, is fearfully and wonderfully
made." It's perfect. The parts are perfect. God made no superfluous
or unnecessary parts, and He has fitted the parts (that is, us) together
or joined them together exactly as He wills.
God has chosen to place every member in the Body as it has pleased Him. We
don't choose what Body part we are. We don't choose where we fit in the
Body. Those parts that are connected to each other are destined to be
connected to each other.
We don't choose which parts of the Body we have direct relationships with
and which ones we have only indirect relationships with. God has made
those decision. But when the Body is working properly, all parts work
together, help each other and minister to each other so there is an
increase or a building up of the whole Body.
Relationship is Important
It's vital that we understand how the Body of Christ works. The most
important thing in your life is your relationship with God. After that is
your relationship with people - your family, your friends and loved ones -
and beyond them, your relationships with other members of the Body of
Christ.
We must understand the proper ordering and working of our relationships
within the Body of Christ because of the effect relationship has on our
prosperity. That's right. Relationship is inseparable from prosperity.
Remember, the Bible says that proper functioning in each individual part
"causes the growth (or increase) of the body for the building up of
itself in love" (Eph. 4:16).
You see, God has a plan for the multiplication of the Body's resources. He
wants to develop individual members of the Body to the point where they
can make a substantial contribution and then link them together. Scripture
says one will chase a thousand, but two will put 10,000 to flight (Deut.
32:30).
Individually, each of us can only do so much, no matter how great our
faith is or how much wealth we have. But by linking together with other
individuals and groups within the Body of Christ, we have all the
spiritual and financial strength we need to win the world for Christ.
God-joined vs. Man-joined
Let me illustrate from the Scriptures how important right relationships
are to our spiritual and financial prosperity. First of all, relationships
fall into two basic categories: God-joined and man-joined.
For instance, 1 Samuel 10:26 says that when Saul went home after being
anointed king, "there went with him a band of men, whose hearts God
had touched." From that day on, these men were Saul's constant
companions and supporters. God made a place in their hearts for Saul and a
place in Saul's heart for them, and there was a divine joining.
But the Bible also gives examples of man-joined relationships. And these
man-joined relationships often got people into trouble. Remember the
prodigal son? When he had spent all his money, "he went and joined
himself to a citizen of that country ... (who) sent him into his fields to
feed swine. And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that
the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him" (Luke 15:15-16).
The young man got into trouble because he joined himself in a relationship
which was not God's will for him. He lost all his money and nearly starved
to death before he went back to the family and the relationships God had
put him in. This story illustrates the principle that if, on your own
initiative, you choose to break loose from someone or some group God has
joined you to, you can become impoverished in short order.
Don't Unhook
The story of Abram and Lot illustrates this principle perfectly in Genesis
13. Abram and Lot were so wealthy that there wasn't enough grazing land
for all their flocks and herds, and the competition for grass and water
was causing strife between them.
Abram was rich because God had blessed him as He had promised. But Lot was
rich because Abram had adopted him when Lot's father died, and had treated
him as part of his own family. In other words, Abram was rich because he
was walking in covenant relationship with God, and Lot was prosperous
because of his relationship with Abram. He was a partaker of Abram's
blessing just as the New Testament says we are partakers of the blessings
of Abram (Abraham) when we are in Christ (Gal. 3:14, 29).
Unfortunately, the prosperity of Abram and Lot caused strife within the
family. And Abram realized that as a godly man he had to be totally
intolerant of strife. Abram decided that he and Lot would have to
separate, and generously gave Lot the choice of which part of the country
he would live in. He said to Lot, "You take the part you want, and
I'll take the other part."
Now, this should have been the moment when Lot remembered where he came
from. He should have remembered that he was an orphan and, except for
Abram's generosity, he wouldn't even have a home, much less flocks and
herds and wealth of all kinds. He should have honored his father-son
relationship he had with his uncle. He should have honored his elder and
told Abram, "No, Father, except for the Lord and you, I'd have
nothing. Therefore, you be the one to choose. If you want me to stay with
you, we'll get rid of some of this stuff. Or if we do need to separate,
you make the choice of which land you want."
But Lot didn't do that, did he? He chose for himself what looked to him to
be the best land. He chose to separate from his relationship with Abram
and joined himself and his family to a city of men who were sinners before
the Lord. And although Lot didn't know it, he ruined his life and the
lives of his family at the moment he made that choice.
Because he chose wealth over his relationship with Abram - the
relationship that was the source of his blessing - he eventually lost
everything, including his wife, and ended up living in fear and poverty in
a cave in the mountains (Gen. 19). All because he didn't understand the
inseparable connection between prosperity and God-joined relationships. He
chose to leave a relationship God had put him in without asking God's
permission, and without considering whether leaving was part of God's plan
for his life or not.
Going AWOL
Lot got into trouble because he did what a lot of Christians do - he went
AWOL. That's the military term for absent without leave. In its simplest
form, it means leaving your assigned station without official permission.
If you're in the military, and get sent to a base in Alaska in the
wintertime, you can't just say, "Hey, I don't like the climate here.
They aren't treating me right up here. Don't we have bases in Hawaii? Man,
I'm out of here! I'm going to a base in Hawaii. I can serve my country
down there just as well as I can here."
No, actually you can't. Because if you leave without permission, you're
considered AWOL. In the natural, any soldier who leaves without permission
would be court-martialed. But there is judgment on the spiritual, too, and
if Jesus really is your Lord and the Captain of your salvation, you don't
get to decide where you're stationed. You don't get to decide when you
work and when you quit. Where you go to church, whether you stay in a
church or change churches, when you hook up with a ministry or unhook from
a ministry is not your choice.
Remember, God places every member in the Body as it pleases Him. God has
joined people together in relationships and people have prospered in those
relationships because they were in the right place at the right time for
the plan of God to work for the increase of the entire Body. So, if you
want to prosper, don't leave without permission. Stay hooked up with God
and with the relationships He has put you in. learn to "endure
hardness, as a good soldier" (2 Tim. 2:3), and let God tell you when
to stay and when to go. |